Episode 43
Permission — ~てもいい
Learn how to ask for permission in Japanese using the te-form construction てもいいですか — and how to hear the answer.
The te-form keeps revealing new abilities. In episode 40 it made polite requests. In episode 41 it described ongoing actions. Today it asks for permission — and it does so in the most elegantly indirect way possible.
What You'll Learn#
May I ~? / Is it okay if I ~? (te-form + も + いい + ですか)
食べてもいいですか (May I eat?), 座ってもいいですか (May I sit down?)
New vocabulary: てもいい (it is okay to, may), もちろん (of course), どうぞ (please go ahead / be my guest)
Review grammar: てください (please do ~, ep. 40), ましょう (let's ~, ep. 37), ている (in progress, ep. 41)
Lesson Transcript#
Flash Review#
Before the main lesson, three quick recall prompts from recent episodes:
| Prompt | Answer |
|---|---|
| Please wait | 待ってください |
| Let's go home | 帰りましょう |
| I'm eating | 食べている |
The Permission Construction — てもいい#
The pattern has three pieces:
- Te-form of your verb
- The particle も (meaning "even" or "also")
- The word いい (meaning "good")
Literal reading: "Even if you do this — it is good." That indirectness is characteristically Japanese. Instead of demanding permission, you are asking whether, in this situation, things would still be fine.
To ask permission, add the question particle か and polite です:
Te-form + もいいですか = "May I ~?"
Examples — Each Built from the Te-form#
May I eat?
食べてもいいですか。
食べてもいい?
May I sit down?
座ってもいいですか。
座ってもいい?
May I come in?
入ってもいいですか。
入ってもいい?
Real-World Example from the Practice Database#
This sentence shows two te-forms stacked together — a common pattern in natural Japanese.
Can I try this on?
これを着てみてもいいですか。
これを着てみてもいい?
Two te-forms, one sentence: 着て (te-form of 着る, to wear) + みて (te-form of みる, to try) + もいいですか (permission question).
Listener Production — Your Turn#
Prompt: How would you say "may I drink this?"
The verb 飲む (to drink) belongs to the group that uses the voiced te-form ending んで. So its te-form is 飲んで.
May I drink this?
飲んでもいいですか。
飲んでもいい?
Polite vs. Casual Forms#
| Setting | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Formal / polite | てもいいですか | 飲んでもいいですか |
| Casual | てもいい (rising tone) | 飲んでもいい? |
The structure is identical. The ですか is politeness dressing — remove it in casual situations.
Responding to Permission Requests#
When someone asks てもいいですか, two responses you will hear constantly:
- もちろん — "Of course." Warm, generous, no hesitation.
- どうぞ — "Please go ahead." An open invitation. You will hear this whenever someone holds a door, offers you a seat, or grants permission of any kind.
A complete exchange:
入ってもいいですか。 どうぞ。
May I come in? — Please, come right in.
Key Takeaway
The pattern てもいいですか takes the te-form of any verb and asks "is it good even if I do this?" The te-form stays the same as in てください and ている — only the ending changes. Respond to permission with もちろん (of course) or どうぞ (go ahead).
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